Respect for each other is the foundation of our group, and must be observed at all times!!
*Some of the following notes should be considered common sense, but it’s for the comfort of everyone, so please don’t be offended…
BI TOLERANT ONLY: We highly prefer our members to be “bi”, although not required, so if you are straight, we do ask that you ask for a wristband to wear on your wrist, so you are not approached by the same sex.
PHOTOGRAPHS: Photos are normally taken by the group host only and are not posted anywhere but SLS, AFF or here. Faces are always blurred out, but if you choose not to have photos taken, please ask for a wristband and wear it on your ankle.
Wristband Reminder:
- Wrist – Straight
- Ankle – No pictures
CONDOMS: Please bring your own condoms, especially if you have a latex sensitivity. Consider bringing appropriate lube if possible.
SEMEN: While maintaining protection, where does one put one’s semen? This must be an accepted location for your partner. You won’t need much conversation regarding this, as usually the recipient will just suggest it along the way.
PERFUME & COLOGNE: We ask that NO PERFUME, COLOGNE OR AFTERSHAVE be worn by anyone during these play dates. Many people are allergic to various scents, INCLUDING HYPO ALLERGENIC ONES.
HAIR – Face and Pubic: Freshly clean shaven is best, but if you choose not to shave, please make sure that you are trimmed to enhance your experience and theirs.
LOTIONS: Do not use desensitizing cream. Nobody wants to experience it with you by either tasting it or feeling the anesthetic effects.
HYGIENE: If you expect there to be contact with any particular area, please be kind enough to wash that area thoroughly. Enough said?
ANAL SEX/DP: Anal penetration is ok for LADIES AND MEN, but please make sure you are clean and ’empty’ and bring better lube!
TOYS: Vibrators, plugs, and strap-ons are always welcome! Bring extra batteries!
COUPLES: This is considered a ‘full swap’ party, and although NO means No, please expect to act accordingly. If you choose to remain ‘soft’ swap, please let your new friends know when approached.