WELCOME TO OUR COMMUNITY
Our group is a non-judgmental, come as you are community that welcomes everyone, (straight, bi, LGTBQIA+) and offers a safe place for both men and women to meet and play amongst those who are comfortable with bi play happening around them!
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EVENT INFO
We rent 2 large connecting suites in a local hotel by Detroit Metro Airport in Romulus, MI on the 2nd Saturday of every month and have an afternoon party (starting at 3 pm) and an evening party (starting at 9 pm) and and our party attendance is generally between 20 – 30 people. We are limited on space, so we do sell out often.
Please RSVP and PURCHASE A TICKET to guarantee your spot by clicking on the preferred event date.
(NOTE: the TICKET link is found below the RSVP tab).
Hotel location is provided in your ticket confirmation email and EMAILS will be sent the evening BEFORE the play date for those who have rsvp’d (check your spam) and room numbers are given as soon as possible after checking in BY EMAIL ONLY the day of the playdate, to those who have purchased a ticket. Please text Christina at 734.238.3939 if you do not receive the info, HOWEVER, she may ask for ticket confirmation before providing info.
Please note event start time – hotel doors will ONLY be open for 15 minutes prior and 30 minutes after start time to provide the hosts time to enjoy themselves as well. If you are going to be late – please let us know and be prepared to knock loudly. We will let you in.
Simply RSVP’ING will not get you the room numbers (as you need to buy a ticket prior to the event) but we all want to know who’s coming – so don’t wait til last minute to put yourself on the list.
Room prices have gone up so we must increase our rate as well:
- $75 per single gentleman
- $50 per couple (MM or FM)
- $25 per trans
- $10 per single lady
*Due to an increasing proportion of no-shows, payment can no longer be accepted at the door
*Discounts are available for 1st time couples and those attending both events. Please choose appropriate tickets.
We provide fresh cut fruit, meat & cheese trays, bottled water, and some light snack foods. Free to bring anything else you want to eat or drink. Alcohol is allowed, but in moderation please! We will also have hand sanitizer and sanitizing wipes for your use. Please ask for a label for your water bottle. Some basic condoms and lube are provided. BYOC – especially if you have a latex allergy or need specific sizes!!
THE RULES
Respect for each other is the foundation of our group, and must be observed at all times!!
*Some of the following notes should be considered common sense, but it’s for the comfort of everyone, so please don’t be offended…
APPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR: Appearing too “eager” can sometimes come across as aggressive – this can be offensive to some and you may be warned. You will be asked to leave and not return if the behavior becomes an issue.
BI TOLERANT ONLY: We highly prefer our members to be “bi”, although not required. If you are straight, and prefer not to be approached by the same sex, you can ask for a wristband to wear on your wrist.
PHOTOGRAPHS: Photos are taken by the group host only and are not posted anywhere but SLS, AFF, FetLife or here. Faces are always blurred out, but if you choose not to have photos taken, please ask for a wristband and wear it on your ankle.
CONDOMS: Please bring your own condoms, especially if you have a latex sensitivity. Consider bringing appropriate lube if possible.
PERFUME & COLOGNE: We ask that NO PERFUME, COLOGNE OR AFTERSHAVE be worn by anyone during these play dates. Many people are allergic to various scents, INCLUDING HYPO ALLERGENIC ONES.
HAIR – Face and Pubic: Freshly clean shaven is best, but if you choose not to shave, please make sure that you are trimmed to enhance your experience and theirs.
LOTIONS: Do not use desensitizing cream. Nobody wants to experience it with you by either tasting it or feeling the anesthetic effects.
HYGIENE: If you expect there to be contact with any particular area, please be kind enough to wash that area thoroughly. Enough said?
ANAL SEX/DP: Anal penetration is ok for LADIES AND MEN, but please make sure you are clean and ’empty’ and bring better lube!
TOYS: Vibrators, plugs, and strap-ons are always welcome! Bring extra batteries!
COUPLES: This is considered a ‘full swap’ party, and although NO means No, please expect to act accordingly. If you choose to remain ‘soft’ swap, please let your new friends know when approached.
LAST BUT NOT LEAST: NO DRUNKS, NO DRAMA, NO ASSHOLES! You will be asked to leave!
FAQs
How do I add/change my profile picture?
In order to upload a profile picture OR change it, please hover over your profile name in the top right corner. Scroll to Profile ->Profile Photo. This will allow you to upload a new photo.
How do I get vetted to attend a party?
Any one can buy a ticket and attend a party.
We do not have a formal vetting process, however, often, one or both of the hosts have spoken to you in some capacity prior to attending OR we co hosts events at Walkers Speak Easy and encourage people to visit us there to meet in person OR lastly, if we do not know you at all, newcomers are watched at their first event to vet whether they are allowed to return.
How do I get verified on the site?
Verifications are only given by Christina after she has personally met you in person at a party. Simply attending a party will not get a verification. Please make sure to say hello to Christina and mentioned being verified. If need be, follow up the next day with a private message asking to be verified.
I have a single male profile and want to bring a friend. Can I buy a couple's ticket?
Yes, of course. You must arrive to the event together as a couple. Please indicate the 2nd person's name on the RSVP list. If for some reason, your guest can not attend, you may still attend, but will be required to pay the price difference at the door.
Can I attend both events? Do you offer discounts?
You may attend both events, however, you do need a ticket for both events (we have limited space and need an exact count). Couples will receive 50% off the 2nd evening event.
1st time couples also receive 50% off the first event, whether its daytime or evening. (And would still receive 50% off the evening event if those chose to attend both)
Select appropriate tickets when purchasing.
Do you offer refunds?
No refunds are given, however, if you cancel with at least 24 hours notice, we can transfer your ticket to the next month’s playdate as a one time courtesy. If you can’t make it, please let us know as that allows others to attend if we have the room.
In the event that a party is ever cancelled by us, your ticket WILL be refunded.
Are you 420 friendly?
Gummies are ok. Although we do not allow it to be smoked (or vaped) inside the event venue itself, people have been known to go outside. Please ask for the hotel key for readmittance or knock loudly upon returning and someone will let you in.
Is alcohol ok?
Yes, in moderation. We do not provide mixers, but you are allowed to bring anything you choose to drink (and mixers as well, if you choose). Labels can be provided for your drinks.
I am a cross dresser. Is that ok?
Everyone is welcome - however, please keep in mind that you will be walking through the hotel lobby, so you may change once at the room if you prefer.
Single male tickets are sold out. Can I still attend?
Not as a single male. Bring a female friend and come as a couple (if couples tickets are still available)
We only allow so many single males at each event and tickets sell out quickly. It is always advised to purchase a ticket as soon as possible to prevent a sell out.